this is social anxiety summed up in two gifs

My life…

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"I actually attack the concept of happiness. The idea that - I don’t mind people being happy - but the idea that everything we do is part of the pursuit of happiness seems to me a really dangerous idea and has led to a contemporary disease in Western society, which is fear of sadness. It’s a really odd thing that we’re now seeing people saying “write down 3 things that made you happy today before you go to sleep”, and “cheer up” and “happiness is our birthright” and so on. We’re kind of teaching our kids that happiness is the default position - it’s rubbish. Wholeness is what we ought to be striving for and part of that is sadness, disappointment, frustration, failure; all of those things which make us who we are. Happiness and victory and fulfillment are nice little things that also happen to us, but they don’t teach us much. Everyone says we grow through pain and then as soon as they experience pain they say “Quick! Move on! Cheer up!” I’d like just for a year to have a moratorium on the word “happiness” and to replace it with the word “wholeness”. Ask yourself “is this contributing to my wholeness?” and if you’re having a bad day, it is."

Hugh Mackay

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This quote could change someone’s life.

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"Get scared. It will do you good. Smoke a bit, stare blankly at some ceilings, beat your head against some walls, refuse to see some people, paint and write. Get scared some more. Allow your little mind to do nothing but function. Stay inside, go out - I don’t care what you’ll do; but stay scared as hell. You will never be able to experience everything. So, please, do poetic justice to your soul and simply experience yourself."

— Albert Camus (via surbeat)

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The Pink and Blue Projects – Korean visual artist JeongMee Yoon explores the genderization of color. 


The Pink and Blue Projects – Korean visual artist JeongMee Yoon explores the genderization of color. 

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"You don’t know anyone at the party, so you don’t want to go. You don’t like cottage cheese, so you haven’t eaten it in years. This is your choice, of course, but don’t kid yourself: it’s also the flinch. Your personality is not set in stone. You may think a morning coffee is the most enjoyable thing in the world, but it’s really just a habit. Thirty days without it, and you would be fine. You think you have a soul mate, but in fact you could have had any number of spouses. You would have evolved differently, but been just as happy.

You can change what you want about yourself at any time. You see yourself as someone who can’t write or play an instrument, who gives in to temptation or makes bad decisions, but that’s really not you. It’s not ingrained. It’s not your personality. Your personality is something else, something deeper than just preferences, and these details on the surface, you can change anytime you like.

If it is useful to do so, you must abandon your identity and start again. Sometimes, it’s the only way.

Set fire to your old self. It’s not needed here. It’s too busy shopping, gossiping about others, and watching days go by and asking why you haven’t gotten as far as you’d like. This old self will die and be forgotten by all but family, and replaced by someone who makes a difference.

Your new self is not like that. Your new self is the Great Chicago Fire—overwhelming, overpowering, and destroying everything that isn’t necessary."

Julien SmithThe Flinch  (via evad-e)

I’m in the middle of this process. Sometimes I feel like I’m dragged back to the comfort of the familiar, but more and more I’m realizing that I don’t really want that.

Also “Set fire to your old self. It’s not needed here.” is an absolutely amazing line. That’s so dead on right now. Love it.

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"If you understand what you are doing you are not learning anything."

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…I accidentally locked myself out of tumblr.

I blocked a handful of sites in order to be more productive, and I thought I put tumblr in the “20 minutes every 24hrs” section…but apparently I didn’t, so it’s totally blocked. So I went in to try to edit my list and I had to type some crazy long code and it told me I did it wrong, so I just gave up. Then I realized I could just open it in Firefox (I’m only locked out on Chrome)- so I’ll probably do that every now and then.

…so I guess I’ll only get on Tumblr like once a week now and end up missing lots of cool stuff. …oops?

"To develop a complete mind: Study the science of art; Study the art of science. Learn how to see. Realize that everything connects to everything else."

— Leonardo Da Vinci  (via thatkindofwoman)

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